My Brother Was Born Sleeping is a lovingly honest book told through the eyes of a child as they try to understand, remember, and heal after the loss of a sibling.
Through the young narrator’s heartfelt journey from sadness and anger to finding peace, this book provides a compassionate resource to help families grieve, remember, and heal together.
Our keepsake book, My Brother Was Born Sleeping, was written from the perspective of a young sibling navigating the confusing grief of loss. Through gentle rhymes and tender illustrations, it captures the raw emotions children experience while offering comfort, understanding, and a way to keep the memory close. It guides families to find peace by feeling their baby’s spirit, the sun in the sky, and the breeze in the trees.
Designed for ages 6–12, the story is both healing for children and meaningful for parents who want to honor their baby’s memory.
Ages 3–5: Use short, simple phrases, and prioritize reassurance of safety and routine.
Ages 6–12: This book is targeted here. Children can handle more detail and need a safe space for questions. Encourage them to talk to their sibling out loud.
Grief after miscarriage or stillbirth is overwhelming, not just for parents, but for siblings, extended family, and friends. This site exists to remind families that their loss matters, their grief is valid, and healing is possible.
By sharing our family’s true story, told through the eyes of a sibling whose heart was breaking, we hope to give you a small flame of light in a dark room. Our journey shows that recovery and acceptance are within reach, allowing you to move from tears to finding calmness and peace when you picture your baby with you. You are not alone, and your loss will ultimately make your family stronger.
Grief after miscarriage or stillbirth touches every part of a family. Parents often find themselves struggling to cope with their own emotions while also caring for their other children, who may be confused or hurting in their own way. My Brother Was Born Sleeping is a gentle light for all involved.
